Wow! 2 weeks ago today I started writing this blog and now I'm getting quite used to it.
It's actually really helpful and positive to put all this into words and to really think about the physical side of our relationship and all the positive benefits it has. It's funny because quite early on in our relationship Alanis Morissette brought out the song, 'head over feet' which had the line: 'you're my best friend, best friend with benefits' and I really related to this song and to this line and we used to joke about it as we always have been best friends but with more of a relationship than best friends can have and this is still how I feel now - as my husband is my best friend and it is definitely a benefit that you can have a physical relationship too!
Last night we were very tired again but decided to really hold each other having sex as I said I needed a cuddle and closeness and my husband joked about it being a humpy cuddle (as we do often joke about 'rumpy pumpy' as it sounds more fun than just 'sex'!) Anyway it was really nice as we felt really close and happy and slept brilliantly . . . .and even though we had a pretty stressful thing happening today with one of our kids, our moods didn't drop and we coped really well with the situation we had to go through . . . .I think it really helped . . . . . so anyway, I need to go to bed . . . . .and stop listening to Alanis Morissette!
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