12th February 2014

Didn't have sex last night or tonight  - very tired but did have lovely relax and little read and cuddles - do seem to feel much more tired the next day when not had sex - might be time for it tonight . . .

11th February 2014

I think a couple of days of sex really worked as felt very happy today - had lovely lunch out with friends and then very busy eve with parents eve, kids clubs and hairdresser so didn't manage sex but felt content anyway . . . .

10th February 2014

Today was a pretty usual Monday - but I think the sex helped to make it an ok day and to keep my spirits up - just too busy!


Did manage the sex though! Again was good . . . .

9th February 2014

Today was an early start - swimming then a busy day of trying to get homeworks done although we did manage a dog walk and bike ride which energised us a bit!


Had great Chinese buffet tea out which meant no cooking on a Sunday - perfect!


Tonight we got back on track and did have sex - very good and helped with the following Monday morning!

8th February 2014

Tonight my husband was in a terrible mood so nothing happened!! Maybe tomorrow will be better!

7th February 20214

We did have sex last night - good sex - did take a while again though - but felt soooooo much better this morning as had slept really well and felt lighter, more positive and not so heavy and tired!


However my husband has been in a horrible mood tonight so I doubt anything will be happening when we go to bed!!

6th February 2014

After a fairly normal day we didn't end up having sex as my husband was really tired etc and what a difference it made today - felt absolutely dreadful - really washed out, run down, depressed - a terrible lethargy and heaviness hung over me and although I did fairly good things that day I felt really low.

5th February 2014

We did end up having sex yesterday and it made a huge difference again! Felt much lighter and happier and slept much better - could well be the sleep that causing the lighter mood!

4th February 2014

We were back on track last night and did have good sex - even though very tired!


The great thing was that great sleep was restored - we slept brilliantly - so much so that I missed one of my alarms and I did not hear any snoring - yey!!


Today I felt great - much more energy and much better spirits and positive mind - basically I felt happy and so had a good day - not a perfect day but so much better than my grumpy previous day.


We had a good evening - I waited for my husband and had tea with him - watched 'Benidorm', had a glass of wine and now we're hurrying to bed - so we'll see what happens tonight . . . . .

3rd February 2014

Last night was the first night we didn't have sex since December 31st - we were tired and thought we'd have a rest.


Did it make a difference - YES it did!!!


I didn't sleep as well and was very wakeful, especially in the early hours of the morning, I heard my husband snoring which I haven't done all January and today was a really crap day!!


Today I have felt very tired and weary, I have had a bad headache, I've been in a bad mood, I've been tearful, frustrated, angry and very low in spirits.


I'll be glad when today's over - my husband's not been in good spirits either so I think it's had a negative effect on him too.


I'm hoping that we might continue with the sex tonight if our weary, low moods let us . . . . . .

2nd February 2014

Sunday was a lovely but busy day - swimming, shopping etc - I felt in a good mood through it all but by the evening we were very tired - so although we managed the sex it was very late, we were tired and it took a really long time, making the time we went to sleep very late but we slept very well.


Monday was great and felt in great mood - made sushi and had wine in the evening.

1st February 2014

Again, not sure how long we can keep this going but we've managed one month and it's now one month and one day - including 1st Feb!


Things seem to be taking a bit longer now we've hit the month mark - but not necessarily a bad thing - last night was pretty long but pretty good - slept so well and am still not noticing the snoring - pretty amazing!!


It put me into such a good mood that I didn't mind getting up early to go swimming today and have been in good spirits all day - let's see what happens tonight - day 2 of Feb . . . . .

31st January 2014

Today was a really shit day - should have been a really fantastic day as was going to my friends house for lunch - however when I got there they had some news to share with me - that my neighbour (the one mentioned before) has been climbing over our fence and helping herself to our garden toys and has stolen a couple of things and has allowed her kids to play in our garden and on our trampoline etc - what is worse is that she has been boasting to others about this!! Bizarre woman!! Also I had taken her her favourite bottle of wine for her birthday the day before - how low can you get?!?


I was pretty mad and upset about this - however tried to keep my cool, tried my best to draw on any positivity I had left - and I did manage  - I managed to get over it quite quickly and today I moved on - she's really not worth it and neither are a couple of garden toys. I did however let her know I was aware of her foul play!


Then my husband had to work very late so by the time we had sex it as the early hours of the morning but we still did it and it did the trick - made us feel better and we had a good (although very busy) day today and even managed a little trip to the pub and watched 'hostages' tonight -great series!


so after a whole month of having sex every day let's see what tonight brings . . . . . . .

30th January 2014

Last night good again and allowed me to be in a positive mood today. Had pretty great day apart from having to put up with some really dull mums at gymnastics - who were playing - kiss, hump, marry !?!?!


Anyway tonight really made up for it as got the kids to bed and had a lovely takeaway, bottle of wine and watched Benidorm - what could be better!?!


So off to bed in great mood!